In the end, the ultimate goal of all this is to win.
Winning means beating the odds, building a company, making a few bucks and along the way having thousands of little wins. It takes a lot of winning to build something.
So then all of this advice that we sling around is all about “how to win.”
However, if you ask the question “How will I win?” the answer will probably not be something you read on a blog. The answer is unique to you.
You will win by being yourself, and being the best at being yourself. You have a very specific set of skills. These combine to give you advantages that the other guy doesn’t have and can’t develop.
Figure out what it is, embrace it, and go nuts.